Eight Month's. 10-28-11

This was my daughter's family two year's ago on Christmas.
Rylee and Tommy on the floor, Kiara walking around and their dad on the couch.
Where are you DeeDee? Did you know today has been eight month's since you have seen your children? I cant wrap my mind around what has happened the last year....are you wired wrong or do you need an intervention? I am so hurt by all the game's and lie's that you have done. I would beg, borrow and steal for my children...I would thumb from Vegas to see my children. 
I called the DCFS and talked to Mike Godfrey and he said their are too many red flag's on you to be able to get your children back....the biggest one being your husband (Tom) the other ...not seeing your children for eight month's. 
My heart break's, I am so confused by this behavior. You alway's have and excuse....Mike Godfrey said no one care's if you dont have money (who does) and the judge certainly wont look at thing's lightly about not seeing your children. Are they not part of your plan....why have a job, apartment and anything else if you dont have your children or are even making attempt's to get them?
I wish someone out there could help me understand all of this craziness....because it has almost broke me. I am so hurt all the time from the thing's my grandchildren have had to endure. I know now that I will be raising my grandchildren....it is an honor. But what happened to my daughter? Where did she go? I will never understand this behavior. It haunt's me.


  1. Hi Debbie, Sometimes there are no answers to things that we want so bad to be answered. Sometimes the ones that we want answers from don't have an answer to give, because they don't know themselves...I can't begin to even know what you are going through but my heart goes out to you and I hope you get the answers you need to help your heart mend...I'm sending prayers your way sweet friend...Hugs Jennifer

  2. Oh Dear God Sweetie, I feel your pain! You are doing all you can do and what really matters...those children! Your daughter is grown...she's living the life she desires. There isn't really anything else you can do. Stop worrying, stop driving yourself crazy!
    Feel the love I'm extending to you now and give as much to those children as you possibly can, they will need it and you. You are all they have now! Be strong my friend and rely heavily on the Lord...your only strength and means of endurance...remember you have so many friends here to give you all the moral support and love. How are your sons and hubby? You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Love you much!

  3. Hi sweet lady.
    Iam so sorry !!!
    I hope to God she is Ok.
    I will pray of you and your family she comes home to you all..soon
    Email me if you like.
    XXOO Diane

  4. Oh dear Debbie, I cannot imagine the pain you are going through. Just know that you are doing what is right for your family, and your daughter is the one who is truly missing out on the best things in her life. I hope she wakes up and realizes it before they are grown. You are an incredible lady, and the kids are so very fortunate to have you for a grandma.
    Much love,

  5. I am so sorry Dee. I pray that things begin to work out for you all.



  6. I am so sorry that you are going through all this pain. Although I am so thankful that your grandchildren have such a loving caring STRONG grandmother like you.
    Take Care

  7. hey girl...haven't seen you in a while hope all is well with you...xoxoxo ~sabri~